Every Christmas season I end up being exhausted or sick. A whirlwind of commitments take over and along with work at school and my housework, there’s not much time to relax. For years my wish was to slow down and take time for me. Now our house just has us here and things are slowing down. On weekends I’ve been trying to squeeze r & r in my days. My favorite things to do is read, write my blog and watch Christmas movies.
Here are some of my suggestions for busy moms and wives to indulge in r& r
* Watch a holiday movie, better yet do a Christmas movie marathon
* Take a bubble bath and light a candle nearby
* Look through old cookbooks and plan to make a meal or dessert. I do this with my cookie magazines and enjoy it very much
* Call a friend or family member and strike up a conversation. This beats a quick message or text
* Go for a winter walk when it’s snowing…it’s so magical!
* Take a family drive to see neighborhood Christmas lights
Everyone needs rest this time of year, healing therapy for your body and mind. With relaxing and taking good care of yourself, you are banking on healthy and pleasant days ahead! Don’t let the stress of the season take over!
This will be my third year hosting Thanksgiving at our home. It’s been a learning process and it still continues as I work on planning the cooking. Somehow it all comes together in the end like a perfect wrapped package, despite anxiety over the details. While I have planned on how things will go, my go to for organization is to make many lists. I jotted down a simple menu and as the big day approaches it’s been tweaked a bit. It changed as I discovered which relatives will bring what dishes. Next I wrote a grocery list. This year I had two, one for a week ago and one for fresh veggies for today. I picked up chicken broth, pickles, olives and the turkey last week and today shopped for fresh veggies and last-minute additions.
I brushed up on recipes, talked to my mother-in-law about her tasty sausage stuffing and my sister-in-law Bev on her fabulous gravy. I will make these dishes the best I can in the next few days and every year it should get easier and become a science.
I’ve already made my son’s cookies since he prefers them to pie and tomorrow I’ll make deviled eggs and start roasting veggies for the gravy. I’ve planned what I’ll make on which day and the big pie baking day will be Wednesday. Wahoo!
Here’s some advice for your Thanksgiving planning that have helped me. I always love to read my blogging friends holiday tips!
* Go early to the grocery store to avoid crowds. The next few days will be hectic
* Write a list of dishes you wish to prepare and a separate list of items needed for them
* Communicate with family and friends to see what they are bringing
* Ask your spouse and family members to help peel veggies, vacuum the house or other tasks you may need done while you cook and bake
* Light the candles, wear your favorite apron and play Christmas tunes as you cook. It will lighten the mood and relax you.
Laugh with your loved ones. Doesn’t Dylan look happy?
* Most Important, have fun and thank your blessings as you plan and prepare the feast!
As I wrap this post up I wish you all a blessed and Happy Thanksgiving! Indulge in good food, company and remember to acknowledge what you are grateful for! I’m beyond thankful for my loving family, they are my anchor and life is so sweet with them! I’m thankful that my son Dylan proposed to his girlfriend Alexis this month and will marry her in August! I’m so thrilled to be gaining a sweet daughter in law! I’m also grateful for my friends, my little job at school and the children there.
I want to share with you all my perfect morning yesterday. Since it was Saturday the alarm clock could stay off. Thankfully I peacefully slept until I woke up. That’s this working woman’s prayer…that at least once or twice a week I can slumber without a blaring wake up.
Waking up sleepily, I glanced out my new bedroom window just feet from my bed. As gorgeous pink ribbons painted the heavens, I sat on the edge of my bed absorbed in this wonder. It’s amazing how beautiful the sky can be the same day as a storm, a calm miracle preceding a turbulent event.
Trudging down our stairs, I heard a crash against the window and saw a little chickadee fly away unharmed. About six other chickadees fluttered and swooped in front and into the roadside bushes. They flew with angelic grace but with an energetic speed. One landed on our front stoop and pecked at a dried plant sprig and at that very moment, I knew this morning was magical and a gift from God above.
So I want to thank God for my perfect morning! After these beautiful sights I cradled my hot brew and sat comfortably in my favorite chair. It’s these moments that increase my faith and affirm my belief in Him. I know He’s watching out for me! The only regret from this experience is that I don’t have photographs to share, instead you’ll have to take my word for it and I’ll share a sunset I enjoyed a few years back.
All the beauty and love in the world is proof of God’s love! I happily embrace God’s magic and I hope you do too!
This poem was written in a cozy recliner chair just feet away from the stove.
There’s a faint crackle and pop
a forced heat that doesn’t stop
a flicker of orange
and illuminating light
a warmth that feels so right
While the frigid whipping winds
push at our window
an armful of wood fuels
the steady warm glow
Coming into the winter months it’s a common sight to see gloves, hats and shoes parked at the stove. Visitors are drawn to its presence and stand huddling over it, as many have over the years. Our in-laws had this stove first in their quaint log home. I vividly remember standing over this beauty. Within minutes the suppressing heat would scorch my legs and I would have to back up, but not too far. Now our future daughter in law, Lexy, stands over it too!